Have you ever felt like you were holding yourself back from the life you want because of your lack of self-love, or that you've been attracting unnecessary drama into your life? Does it seem like you're caught in an unhealthy comparison trap or have a distorted image of yourself?
The Lover archetype is a feminine power that connects to our inner Goddess and allows us to feel beautiful and sexy. The Lover is also a healer—she brings us back to self-acceptance and self-love, which is key for enjoying self-pleasure and our own company.
Here are some tips for healing the Lover in her shadow side so she can bring more love into her life:
Practice self-love by loving everything about yourself, including your faults and flaws.
Work on building your inner confidence by getting in touch with who you truly are and knowing what you have to offer the world.
Indulge in self-pleasure by celebrating yourself and all the things that make you unique.
Work with a healer or therapist to heal past wounds (including any trauma or abuse) so they no longer hold you back from becoming who you want to be.